WORDS OF WISDOM

Nowadays, many people only feel happy at the moment they receive something, from wealth and status to something delicious and easy to wear. However, stronger and more desires often arise next, always feeling that they are not enough. The same goes for what others give, either feeling it’s not enough or not feeling it at …

It is always much easier to treat oneself than to treat others. Many people do not completely mistreat themselves, but more of their power is spent on treating others. We can reflect on this: whenever we do this, do we really want to benefit others deep down, or do we want to change others into …

Obviously, it is only on the basis of calmness, tolerance and mutual understanding that problems or conflicts can be effectively resolved, especially worldly conflicts. On the contrary, if everyone stands on his own ground and considers only his own interests, there will never be an absolutely fair result. Or even if the external problems are …

Our true nature Ultimately, what is our true nature? It is compassion and wisdom, this is our true nature. Although many people have lost, forgotten, or even dared not believe it, ultimately, compassion and wisdom are our true nature. They have never left us for a moment. Therefore, whenever we go against this true nature, …

No feeling is permanent. Most people’s state is extremely unstable, one second is very happy, the next second may be very angry; similarly, one second is grief and indignation, the next second may be broken into tears to laugh; today is still infinite fondness for a person, the next day when we see each other …

The cause of suffering is derived from our internal attachments, and these attachments arise from our minds. Therefore, this cause is related to our inner selves and has nothing to do with the external world or other things. There is no external factor that can endlessly make us experience suffering, and it is important for …

Others may give benefits and advantages to their enemies, when to give, how much to give, where they get it from, and it has nothing to do with us. Why do we get upset about things that have no relevance to ourselves? Therefore, we need to question ourselves. This is because we already have worries …

The so-called virtuous thoughts must have an important characteristic, which is the ability to observe and empathize with others, and a genuine wish for the well-being of others. This is a broad generalization. Regardless of whether these thoughts translate into actions or bring warmth to others, whenever virtuous thoughts arise, our own hearts first become …

If you often feel physically and mentally exhausted or uncomfortable, take some time to let go of everything in your hands, everything in your mind—be quiet, relax… You will have a different awareness and may even rediscover your true awareness.

What we do in the external world, whether good or bad, ultimately comes back to us. Originally, we hope for our own well-being, but precisely because we overly value ourselves, we end up doing things that are ultimately detrimental to ourselves. Of course, we often forget this most fundamental truth.

For worldly people, having loved ones nearby is a source of happiness. If they leave, it can lead to loneliness and sadness. Is this love? Love should not make someone suffer and cling; it’s dependence or attachment.

The way you respond to others’ advice or even “criticism,” whether it’s with a negative reaction or a constructive mindset, can lead to different outcomes. One results in distress, while the other fosters growth. Therefore, changing a certain thoughtless, habitual response pattern is in itself a form of personal growth.

In terms of spiritual practice, what is agreeable and pleasant may not be good; what is disagreeable and unpleasant may not be bad. Observe your reactions, confront some form of attachment that runs through them. Clearly, momentary joy, resistance, and even prolonged indulgence are all forms of nurturing.

Don’t let the goal, the sprint, including the practice cut you – this part harsh, that part indulgent …… Let self-discipline, awareness, concentration and yet relaxation flow through your entire being. If you can do this, every present moment is complete and wonderful.

What is the greatest power in the world? It is the power of compassion. Just like water, just imagine there is no place that water cannot reach.

Even with shortcomings and past mistakes, maintain confidence in yourself. As long as you’re not indulging in the present moment, it’s progress. Learn to be at ease with yourself, let go of excessive worries, and you will keep progressing.

Mindfulness doesn’t imply judgment or praise. It’s about observing your intentions, thoughts, words, and deeds, and deciding whether to correct course or persist, without getting caught up in criticism or approval.

The best relationships, whether parent-child, husband-wife, or friendships, shouldn’t be about mere satisfaction. They should foster mutual growth, even accomplishment. Allow, support, and inspire each other to become the best versions of themselves. When you embody such an approach, the best will naturally come your way as well.

Perhaps what you like is exactly what others dislike. Therefore, many times, without thoughtful consideration, forcefully imposing what you consider good onto others might not be a good idea.

Mindfulness is like breathing, but how often do we truly pay attention to our breath? Hence, before reclaiming mindfulness, some effort is required.

Don’t strive to become a perfect person; it’s a difficult and unattainable goal. You can aim to become a good person. Yes, learn to be a good person, because it requires wisdom.

Even if you have shortcomings or even made mistakes, you still have to have faith in yourself. As long as you are not indulging yourself in the moment, you are making progress. Learn to simply be with yourself and let go of overthinking, and you will continue to make progress.

Don’t magnify your strengths, and certainly don’t magnify your weaknesses. Magnification is reinforcement, and reinforcement is distortion. If you don’t know yourself truly, and then you can’t be true to yourself, how can you not deviate from your other reactions?

Speak kindly, even if you are right. Listen attentively, even if you hear disagreements. Expanding the space within your heart allows for stability, adaptability, and the possibility for growth.

In reality, few people genuinely pursue true equality, isn’t that so? Yet, another truth is that only when one is firmly convinced of true equality, can they remain humble in low times and composed in high times. And only with this composure, can one have inner peace and serenity.

How others perceive you is not important; what matters is what happens around you, what you need to face or bear. Undoubtedly, these are the places where true growth happens, where the light shines in.

If you strive to present a supposedly “good” image to others, this endeavor will be a lifelong struggle. Yet, if you live in inner contentment, this endeavor comes to an end, for you care less about others’ opinions.

What is the true meaning of life? Many times, we assign a certain meaning to life, but at other times, suddenly we feel it lacks meaning. What is the true meaning of life? Practice letting go of desires and fears, and then try to experience it again.

Do not underestimate your own value. Every person comes to this world with a purpose, and even giving a smile to the people around you is a contribution. In fact, it’s not always easy to do so.