In the big movie of life,Few people have the courage to leave.Only by understanding that life is the truth of the theater,Only then can we see the reality of the human world clearly,Hold a positive view.——”The World is a Theater”
WORDS OF WISDOM
Vancouver , Some Chapters in Life
“All men are created equal” is a statement advocated by most people and also a belief held by the majority. However, people are not equal. Although they are all brought into this world by their parents, and although their physical structures are the same, there are significant differences in their thoughts and consciousness. Although this …
Delight
Nowadays, many people only feel happy at the moment they receive something, from wealth and status to something delicious and easy to wear. However, stronger and more desires often arise next, always feeling that they are not enough. The same goes for what others give, either feeling it’s not enough or not feeling it at …
Only by achieving this can we benefit ourselves from it
It is always much easier to treat oneself than to treat others. Many people do not completely mistreat themselves, but more of their power is spent on treating others. We can reflect on this: whenever we do this, do we really want to benefit others deep down, or do we want to change others into …
Where does suffering come from?
Obviously, it is only on the basis of calmness, tolerance and mutual understanding that problems or conflicts can be effectively resolved, especially worldly conflicts. On the contrary, if everyone stands on his own ground and considers only his own interests, there will never be an absolutely fair result. Or even if the external problems are …
Our original intention
Our true nature Ultimately, what is our true nature? It is compassion and wisdom, this is our true nature. Although many people have lost, forgotten, or even dared not believe it, ultimately, compassion and wisdom are our true nature. They have never left us for a moment. Therefore, whenever we go against this true nature, …
How things manifest?
No feeling is permanent. Most people’s state is extremely unstable, one second is very happy, the next second may be very angry; similarly, one second is grief and indignation, the next second may be broken into tears to laugh; today is still infinite fondness for a person, the next day when we see each other …
The causes of pain
The cause of suffering is derived from our internal attachments, and these attachments arise from our minds. Therefore, this cause is related to our inner selves and has nothing to do with the external world or other things. There is no external factor that can endlessly make us experience suffering, and it is important for …
Why do you feel troubled about things that are unrelated to yourself?
Others may give benefits and advantages to their enemies, when to give, how much to give, where they get it from, and it has nothing to do with us. Why do we get upset about things that have no relevance to ourselves? Therefore, we need to question ourselves. This is because we already have worries …
Please have more kindness in the new year
The so-called virtuous thoughts must have an important characteristic, which is the ability to observe and empathize with others, and a genuine wish for the well-being of others. This is a broad generalization. Regardless of whether these thoughts translate into actions or bring warmth to others, whenever virtuous thoughts arise, our own hearts first become …
Freedom and the present
What is freedom? It is non-dependence. You can rely on it, you can interact with it, you can get it, you can give it, but you don’t rely on it. Therefore, it is also possible to lose. Why? There is no self that one has to establish. All relationships exist only in the present, not …
To be kind to others requires wisdom
Giving, being kind to others… perhaps the returns may not come so quickly, but in reality, peace of mind is the greatest reward. Moreover, if one doesn’t expect too much from the external, peace of mind will be experienced in a more complete manner. What matters is not how others treat us; what matters is …
Returning to inner silence and achieving true freedom
True contentment resides within a person’s heart and does not depend on attempts to create everything. In fact, what makes oneself uncomfortable is precisely the heart that constantly jumps, changes, attaches, and calculates. If you can return to the silence within your heart, you will easily see the turbulence of emotions and their seemingly powerful …
The world is unpredictable, living in the present moment
No one can predict whether tomorrow or the afterlife will arrive first. In reality, we are just a breath away from the afterlife, and if we engage in unwholesome actions, the path to an unfortunate realm is just a step away. Nothing that happens cannot be traversed. What is impassable is not an event but …
Give yourself some time to regain awareness
If you often feel physically and mentally exhausted or uncomfortable, take some time to let go of everything in your hands, everything in your mind—be quiet, relax… You will have a different awareness and may even rediscover your true awareness.
The most simple truth
What we do in the external world, whether good or bad, ultimately comes back to us. Originally, we hope for our own well-being, but precisely because we overly value ourselves, we end up doing things that are ultimately detrimental to ourselves. Of course, we often forget this most fundamental truth.
Always maintain a positive attitude in the face of anything
What you are wholeheartedly protecting now is ultimately something you will have to leave behind—your body, possessions, loved ones, and friends. If you are attached, they become obstacles; but if you transform them for the path, they become the sustenance for liberation. Therefore, every day and every moment, in the face of anything, maintain right …
Don’t lose heart, let alone give up
In our limited minds, we often feel that practice seems endless, but in fact it is a period of incomparably wonderful and precious years in the truly long and boundless cycle of reincarnation. Only with it, the cycle will end. So don’t be discouraged, and don’t give up.
Can love be painful and intrusive?
For worldly people, having loved ones nearby is a source of happiness. If they leave, it can lead to loneliness and sadness. Is this love? Love should not make someone suffer and cling; it’s dependence or attachment.
Change is Growth
The way you respond to others’ advice or even “criticism,” whether it’s with a negative reaction or a constructive mindset, can lead to different outcomes. One results in distress, while the other fosters growth. Therefore, changing a certain thoughtless, habitual response pattern is in itself a form of personal growth.
Observing one’s own reactions
In terms of spiritual practice, what is agreeable and pleasant may not be good; what is disagreeable and unpleasant may not be bad. Observe your reactions, confront some form of attachment that runs through them. Clearly, momentary joy, resistance, and even prolonged indulgence are all forms of nurturing.
Every moment is complete and wonderful
Don’t let the goal, the sprint, including the practice cut you – this part harsh, that part indulgent …… Let self-discipline, awareness, concentration and yet relaxation flow through your entire being. If you can do this, every present moment is complete and wonderful.
The greatest power in the world
What is the greatest power in the world? It is the power of compassion. Just like water, just imagine there is no place that water cannot reach.
Put aside too much thought and you will continue to improve
Even with shortcomings and past mistakes, maintain confidence in yourself. As long as you’re not indulging in the present moment, it’s progress. Learn to be at ease with yourself, let go of excessive worries, and you will keep progressing.
Being aware of one’s own thoughts and thoughts
Mindfulness doesn’t imply judgment or praise. It’s about observing your intentions, thoughts, words, and deeds, and deciding whether to correct course or persist, without getting caught up in criticism or approval.
The best of oneself
The best relationships, whether parent-child, husband-wife, or friendships, shouldn’t be about mere satisfaction. They should foster mutual growth, even accomplishment. Allow, support, and inspire each other to become the best versions of themselves. When you embody such an approach, the best will naturally come your way as well.
Do not do to others what you do not want
Perhaps what you like is exactly what others dislike. Therefore, many times, without thoughtful consideration, forcefully imposing what you consider good onto others might not be a good idea.
AWARENESS
Mindfulness is like breathing, but how often do we truly pay attention to our breath? Hence, before reclaiming mindfulness, some effort is required.
Learn to be a good person
Don’t strive to become a perfect person; it’s a difficult and unattainable goal. You can aim to become a good person. Yes, learn to be a good person, because it requires wisdom.
Learn to be simple with yourself
Even if you have shortcomings or even made mistakes, you still have to have faith in yourself. As long as you are not indulging yourself in the moment, you are making progress. Learn to simply be with yourself and let go of overthinking, and you will continue to make progress.
Amplification is intensification, and intensification is distortion
Don’t magnify your strengths, and certainly don’t magnify your weaknesses. Magnification is reinforcement, and reinforcement is distortion. If you don’t know yourself truly, and then you can’t be true to yourself, how can you not deviate from your other reactions?
Make your inner space bigger
Speak kindly, even if you are right. Listen attentively, even if you hear disagreements. Expanding the space within your heart allows for stability, adaptability, and the possibility for growth.
How does arrogance grow?
Most of the time, we excel at noticing others’ faults, inadvertently fostering arrogance. If we change this habit and focus on others’ strengths without jealousy, we won’t be trying to eliminate arrogance on one hand while unconsciously nourishing it on the other.
True equality
In reality, few people genuinely pursue true equality, isn’t that so? Yet, another truth is that only when one is firmly convinced of true equality, can they remain humble in low times and composed in high times. And only with this composure, can one have inner peace and serenity.
Where you really grow
How others perceive you is not important; what matters is what happens around you, what you need to face or bear. Undoubtedly, these are the places where true growth happens, where the light shines in.
Live your inner peace
If you strive to present a supposedly “good” image to others, this endeavor will be a lifelong struggle. Yet, if you live in inner contentment, this endeavor comes to an end, for you care less about others’ opinions.
Meaning of life…
What is the true meaning of life? Many times, we assign a certain meaning to life, but at other times, suddenly we feel it lacks meaning. What is the true meaning of life? Practice letting go of desires and fears, and then try to experience it again.
Your own value
Do not underestimate your own value. Every person comes to this world with a purpose, and even giving a smile to the people around you is a contribution. In fact, it’s not always easy to do so.
What you really care about is yourself
What you really care about is yourself If one cares deeply about a person or a matter, it is often true that what they truly care about is the self reflected in that person or the self involved in that matter. Facing this reality requires courage and self-awareness. If one can confront it, both parties …
Our thoughts
It is our thoughts that are strong Strength does not come from everything around us but from our thoughts. The kind of thoughts we have determines the kind of world we live in; the kind of habits we have shapes our destiny and the cycle of life.
Truly touching……
Appearance is born from the heart. Even if one’s looks are not very beautiful, it does not diminish the captivating nature of a person’s gaze, expression, and even language and actions. What truly moves people, isn’t it the kindness and goodness that radiate from within, spreading from the inside out?